Relationship patterns keep us safe. And in order to break them gently, we need more discernment and less self-criticism.

Do your relationship patterns always feel familiar but painful? Psychological research may explain why your body keeps ...

I have worked with couples for five decades. They have trusted me to help them break free of interactions that have damaged their love. Though there are many ways that intimate partners can push each ...

Remember the graph paper you used at school, the kind that’s covered with tiny squares? It’s the perfect illustration of what mathematicians call a “periodic tiling of space”, with shapes covering an ...

At a certain point, we all get into our own little groove when we're tidying up, and it is easy to turn our deep cleaning checklist into a habitual routine. Some of those habits we form, however, aren ...

event 10 years ago included a work ("Proverb") with a text from Ludwig Wittgenstein that neatly gets at the heart of the composer's music: "How small a thought it takes to fill a whole life." The ...